We move into our pop-up camper this weekend. Life is about to get interesting, living in it full-time with two adults, a 17 year old, three dogs, and a snake. It is hard to believe it is actually happening! We talked about doing something like this for years, but after a life-changing experience last year, we knew the time was right to start the process. We cleaned out our 2,200+ square foot home, put it up for sale in January, and sold it in under 24 hours. Our youngest is graduating high school at the end of May, so we are staying locally in the pop-up (we call her Vera) until then. After that, we are off to the Appalachian Mountains somewhere and will build a small cabin as our permanent home. We hope to have several acres on which to build our cabin and to plant a variety of food crops. Eventually we would like to have a couple outbuildings to use as an office, workshop and such.
So what brought us to this point? We live in a city of over a million people. I grew up 2,000 miles away in a rural area, while my husband is native to this area. We have been here 17+ years and as time passed, we realized we just aren’t happy in our surroundings. There are houses stacked up against one another, neighbors on top of neighbors, constant noise, and thanks to codes and regulations, a complete lack of freedom. There are restrictions on where you can park, what you can plant, what pets you can have. It is time to go somewhere with space, privacy, and the freedom to live in our own way.
As for the life-changing experience that brought us here? It was the Camino de Santiago. My husband and I walked the 500 mile pilgrimage in August-October 2019. I can do a separate, detailed post about it another time, but basically we lived out of our backpacks the entire time. We had no idea where we would sleep each night, where we would eat, or what would happen. It was a challenge, mentally, physically, and emotionally. We learned a lot about ourselves and about one another, even after two decades of being together. We also learned that the stuff that fill our home is exactly that: just “stuff.” We were perfectly happy having just what was in our packs. Everything else simply takes up space as unnecessary luxuries. We came home and looked around, questioning what the point was to having all this stuff that truly doesn’t make a difference in our lives.
It was time to let go. We had a garage sale, sold items online, and made dozens of trips to local charity shops with our truck full of goods. There were times when we fought emotions, wanting to hold onto some items that had been with us for years, such as things that belonged to parents and grandparents. We kept a couple, but mostly we donated them after coming to the realization that it wasn’t about an object itself; it’s about the story and memory behind it. We do have a storage unit, since Vera can’t hold much and we are staying here for a couple months longer before the big move. It is for basic furniture and household items, and is amazing to see how little is left after getting rid of probably 80% of what was in our home.
We look forward to sharing our day-to-day struggles and successes after we move this weekend. It will be a journey, learning to live in tiny space with others. We will move around with Vera and adjust to our surroundings. If you live in an RV/camper/cabin, we would love to hear your advice, tips, must-haves and have-nots, anything you think would be helpful for us as we adjust to our new life!